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September 26, 2006
I am stealing some working hours to share these juicy thoughts of mine. Better spill it out now before everything loses its hotness.
When I’ve decided to recommunicate with Sean, I never thought that THIS would happen. Well, not in this shourt period of time at least.
Let me describe a bit about him.
For those of you who go for looks, he is a good catch. However, this fish is one bloody fish to please. If you are dumb blonde (celup), you may want to forget about the whole idea. He is smart, good looking and successful. If you can’t tolerate with complex man, by all means, avoid any contact with this man.
He sounds perfect, doesn’t he? Physically yeah (though he does not fulfill the height requirement) but wait till you know him personally. There are times when I am amazed to find myself knowing him for 3 years now.
You see, my relationship (or to be sepecific, ‘friendship’) with him falls under the Superbly, Unfabulously Complicated category. Too complicated to put in words. The last time I checked, his mentality is getting more and more ‘multifaceted’ each time. I guess, that’s what you get from someone who has decided to turn bitter to the world and people around him. Or could it be due to the fact that he’s approaching the huge Four-Oh and still unmarried and companion-less?
Could be.
Just for your information, if I were to tell him this, he would accuse me of being ‘overgeneralizing’, of which I was constantly being punished for… up till now. By doing so, he misses one important point in human rights, that everyone is entitled for his own opinion, be correct or wrong. If it’s correct, let it be but if it’s not, it’s the other’s right to correct it in a more acceptable manner.
Agree?
God knows how patient I was with him. I should get some credits for it, right?
Unfortunalety, nope. All I received was continuous accusations of my being the most egotistical of the bunch, of my not being open to him compared to other guys I am with…
Well, I can’t be ‘too open’ to every guy I am with, can I? Not with those who are not even come close to being in the Comfort Zone for sure.
I guess, when someone is too egrossed with his superior self, he tends to be insensitive towards others and when he’s being presented with the bitter facts, the punishment directly goes to the person who’s trying to give him a good reality check. Both of us are dominant in personality. It’s like trying to merge two same poles of the magnets. Impossible.
Who says men CAN’T be complex?
They can be far WORST!